Message from aarmas

[Anonymous]

Before I move on to review the film, I have to say this is one film I will probably never share with my middle schoolers. First of all, the subject matter is a bit controversial, and it is rated R. Nonetheless, it's one of my favorite movies of all time because it is so well executed and acted. Also its main themes are as relevant now as they were when the movie first came out (no pun intended). Overall, the film is refreshing, funny, and very touching. It explores sides of human nature that affect everyone regardless of their ethnic background or nationality. It bridges cultures with its comedy and sensitive approach.

The film deals with a couple of men who live together in New York in a very convenient, and apparently blissful arrangement. Their stability is disrupted when Chinese traditions kick in, and an unexpected visit from one of the partners' parents results in some very funny situations that have unexpected consequences for the main characters.

"The Wedding Banquet" is set in New York City, but half way through the film's Chinese themes and motiff take over, and suddenly we are transported to another world. The family members' interactions, with old-fashioned traditions clashing with the new world's surprises are wonderful. What helps all of this succeed is the sure hand by Ang Lee, a master director, the superb performances by a cast who do such a great job, you wonder if you're not witnessing a reality show. Be prepared to laugh as people must overcome immigration dilemmas, sexual identity crisis, generational gaps grow into chasms, and in the end, a bitter sweet finale keeps the audience grounded.

A great film.